I was invited to my niece's bridal shower and wedding and happily responded with my acceptance. But now I've been univited because I use a service dog. What do I do now? Do I still need to send a gift?

I have a service dog I take with me everywhere. I advised both parties that I was bringing him. The sister told me that I could leave my service dog outside on the porch or else I was uninvited. Now,

I have been married for 27 years. Most of them have been miserable. My husband has been a functioning alcoholic for more than 40 years. I consider his behavior emotionally abusive. I hate my home. My kids (22,